Sleep Your Way To Greater Connection
Looking for easy ways to improve how connected you feel on a daily basis? Here’s one you literally can do in your sleep. Good mental health and well-being…
Numbing vs. Relaxing: Are You Disconnecting from Life?
At times (and especially lately), most of us will use technology to zone out, decompress or avoid feeling our feelings. But it’s important to be compassionate and realize…
How to Stay Connected to Yourself, Others and to What Matters in a Time of COVID-19
With new information emerging every day about the COVID-19 pandemic, and huge numbers of people ordered to stay home to prevent its spread, this is one of the…
Change Your Use Of Technology To Lead A More Connected Life
Digital communication is a seductress that invites us to disconnect from ourselves, our present moment, and the people around us more completely than anything else. Several reports suggest…
Reconnecting with the Body for Better Health and Well-Being
Establishing a strong connection with and awareness of your body is an essential part of improving your overall connection to yourself.
Research News from the Connection Lab
The Journal of Pacific Rim Psychology published some exciting research from our Connection Lab in January 2020. We had been studying the relationship between…
Why Don't the Holidays Feel like the Holidays?
The holiday season is supposed to be joyous, loving, and celebratory – a supremely generous time when grudges are put aside, mistakes are forgiven, appreciation expressed, and everyone…
The Simplest Path to Uncluttering Our Lives
Many organizational experts offer advice and best practices for eliminating clutter. But at the heart of every uncluttering method lies the same simple truth: the things you keep…
Are You Feeling Disconnected from Life?
Do you feel like you’re going through life on autopilot? Are you stuck in a routine that makes you feel like you’re on a treadmill to nowhere? You…
Cut through the Clutter with Connection
Do you struggle with clutter, or do you have a loved one who does? The odds are pretty good you do – recent community surveys suggest as many…
Self-Connection as the Path to Well-Being
Connection Theory is the idea that by focusing on cultivating connection (rather than happiness, mindfulness, resilience or any other single concept), we naturally build lives rich with meaning…
Using the Past to Reconnect in the Present
With the constant competition for our attention in the present, it’s often difficult to find time to reflect on the past. Even people who journal regularly about daily…
What Does Self-Connection Feel Like?
Connection — in the sense that we use the word — is an intuitive idea that’s surprisingly tricky to define. It’s not the same as happiness, it’s something.…
How to Practice Self-Compassion Through Anger
We’ve all been there at some point – furiously ranting and ruminating to ourselves about all of the reasons a person or setback is evil, thoughtless, stupid or…
Mindful Communication and Self-Connection
The practice of mindful communication is inextricably linked to the teachings of connection theory, with the two concepts serving each other in a symbiotic relationship. Mindful communication not…
Boost Connection Through Lifelong Learning
In a keynote talk to thousands of employees of a leading and innovative customer relations firm, Tony Robbins boldly asserted: “To feel alive, you have to grow.” He…
In Praise of Slowing Down
One of the most fascinating and compelling books we’ve read on the importance of slowing down is Carl Honoré’s In Praise of Slow: Challenging the Cult of Speed.…
Do You Know and Live Your Values?
As a society, we constantly talk about our “values,” as if we as individuals (or we as a country) actually know what those values are. If you had…
Living in Alignment: Are Urgent Tasks Getting In Your Way?
Modern life is full of urgent demands on our time…besides the usual deadlines for school and work, there are bills to pay, family activities to plan (and do),…
How to Make a Great Day Even Greater
We’ve been doing a series of blog posts on how to cultivate more meaning in everyday life, because it is the single most powerful way to experience a…